posted on September 3, 2004 12:55:55 PM new
When your husband or boyfriend wants sex all the time, anytime, anywhere - and NEVER lets up, what do you do? Don't guys know that it's a turn-off acting so needy all the time? Don't you realize that "sure things" aren't that much of a challenge? And what about watching tv? Is that the only thing that distracts you from thinking about sex? I know being sick is one but I can't think of anything else. Since men created birth control, I think women should come up with a "Back-Off" patch or spray for men. Get it together guys!!
posted on September 3, 2004 05:06:50 PM newWhen your husband or boyfriend wants sex all the time, anytime, anywhere - and NEVER lets up, what do you do?
Easy, comply. I fail to see a problem here. There is no such thing as too much of it.
posted on September 3, 2004 08:26:48 PM new
Get him a mistress or a live in girlfriend or post a photo of Hillary on the headboard of the bed with a spot light shining on it.
posted on September 4, 2004 04:17:10 PM new
JUST SAY NO, stop shaving your legs, but a lock on the br door, put saltpeter in his food, THROW AWAY THE VIAGRA?
posted on September 5, 2004 10:30:11 AM newVery funny. I can't believe I'm the only here that puts up with this. Chickens!!!
So you were serious, I for one and it seems as though quite a few others thought you were joking.
Well then in that case I shall try to address your OP in a serious manner. It seems that what you are asking for is for your man to put aside that which is part of what makes him a man. A man that is attracted to the one he loves. These are urges that are present in every man and asking him to just quash those feelings would be like him asking you to give up whatever maternal instincts you might have. If you have children or not, you do have maternal instincts and they are a part of you and it in part makes you a woman.
Let us now explore the reasons for these attractions of men towards women. Could it be because of the way women look, their
curves, the roundness of their many forms.
Could it be because of the way that women feel, the softness of their skin, or the
warmth from within.
Could it be because of the way that women smell, like a field of flowers on a sunny afternoon.
Or the way that their laughter seems to light up a room. Or the way they lend comfort in times of gloom.
Or how about their maternal instincts, when a child needs her, she comes through with a smile and whenever things look bad she corrects it with style.
Or when you are lonely she makes you feel glad. But when she’s not around it makes you feel bad.
These are but a few of the many reasons that men are attracted to women and cause them to want or need to express their feelings towards them but I believe the main reason
is that most men are just not complete without the affections that only a woman can provide.
So the next time he is feeling as you say needy, I suggest that you be mindfull of all that makes him the way that he is and
embrace him with all of your womanhood and be glad that you have him.
On the otherhand I do beleive that there is a patch that can be worn by him that will somewhat curb his desires but it is a rather large patch and it has some really sticky adhesive. Where the patch has to be worn might present some problems and when you do finally rip off the patch,
YEOUCH THAT HURTS.
posted on September 5, 2004 10:48:10 AM new
Yellowstone, you're a sweetie - wonderful post (although I can picture Twelve ralphing in the corner!) Actually, my post was part humour and part serious. Mr. Kraft and I are crazy about each other, and if you saw me in RL, you'd understand why he's nuts about me ( ). Maybe it's just Canadian men who are all hyped up all the time. (???)
posted on September 5, 2004 12:10:52 PM new
yellowstone - you don't read Maya Angelou by chance do you?
When I read your post, this poem came to mind...
"Phenomenal Woman"
Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I'm telling lies.
I say,
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.
I say,
It's the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them
They say they still can't see.
I say,
It's in the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.
I say,
It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need of my care,
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
edited because - darn it! - my colon key isn't working for a smilie, so had to wink instead...
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