kraftdinner
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posted on March 17, 2004 08:12:09 PM new
Twelve, if you think homosexuals choose to be that way and you met a girl that used to be gay but decided not to be, would you still go out with her if you knew beforehand?
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shoesandsocks
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posted on March 17, 2004 11:07:42 PM new
I'm not twelve, but I would.
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Twelvepole
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posted on March 18, 2004 04:28:44 AM new
Yes I would, because now she is back on the correct path...
AIN'T LIFE GRAND... 
http://www.nogaymarriage.com/
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hibbertst
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posted on March 18, 2004 08:21:14 AM new
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stopwhining
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posted on March 18, 2004 10:13:41 AM new
casual dating may be okay,but i would wonder why be a lesbian and why change??
lets ask the ladies the same question-would you date a guy who was a gay man and now claims he is straight??
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kraftdinner
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posted on March 18, 2004 11:33:03 AM new
I'm still trying to figure out how you think, Twelve, so thanks for answering my question. 
P.S. Gays don't choose their sexual identity, imo, so going out with a guy that "used" to be gay wouldn't be an option. But thanks again for answering.
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NearTheSea
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posted on March 18, 2004 12:27:48 PM new
If he was real good looking and I didn't have Mikey, I would
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stopwhining
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posted on March 18, 2004 06:30:27 PM new
nearthesea,
ok,so you would go out with an ex -gay.
how far would you go,knowing his past sexual history??
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NearTheSea
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posted on March 18, 2004 11:01:21 PM new
how far would you go,knowing his past sexual history??
I guess that could apply to ANYONE nowadays, gay or straight, concerning their past sexual history
how far would I go
Like I would post that on a public board
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Linda_K
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posted on March 18, 2004 11:34:15 PM new
NTS - [on a public board]
Re-elect President Bush!!
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NearTheSea
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posted on March 19, 2004 10:11:20 AM new
Well.........  would you??
plus, it was a moot question and answer, since I'm married to a straight (and always has been btw ) guy.
BUT there is still something to be said about 'past sexual histories' to anyone dating or rather being serious with anyone, gay or straight.
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Linda_K
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posted on March 19, 2004 12:25:33 PM new
Well would you?
No...of course not.
But for me....I would not consider a previously gay partner. While I agree there's a risk in any relationship....sex with such a partner would present a much greater risk than most, imo.
Re-elect President Bush!!
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kraftdinner
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posted on March 19, 2004 01:11:09 PM new
Linda, I don't think a gay man would be MORE of a risk than a straight man. Besides, it kind of a nonsense notion to begin with.
The one thing that bothers me, is homosexual men that get married for the sake of how it looks. I hope, in the very near future, that becomes a thing of the past and gay men don't have to hide behind anything any longer.
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NearTheSea
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posted on March 19, 2004 01:20:04 PM new
psssssssssst...... whats with the NAMBLA banner up there?
Now that is one SICK organization
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kraftdinner
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posted on March 19, 2004 01:39:07 PM new
Near, I've heard about NAMBLA but I didn't want to look it up - I'm not sure it's something I want to see. I don't know if you know the answer, but isn't this kind of stuff illegal?
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NearTheSea
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posted on March 19, 2004 01:44:24 PM new
I won't look it up either. But I *think* its illegal, yet somewhere, could have been the news, said they had a website........they also have some sort of magazine, I think
Stands for North America Man-Boy Love Association?? I think
sicksicksicksick
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Linda_K
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posted on March 19, 2004 01:50:08 PM new
KD - I beg to differ. The gay population has had a MUCH bigger problem with HIV/AIDS than has the hetero male community.
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And on NAMBLA.....they promote sex with under aged boys. And the ACLU is defending their 'right' to continue doing so.
Re-elect President Bush!!
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kraftdinner
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posted on March 19, 2004 02:07:03 PM new
That's what I thought, Near & Linda. I heard they promote pedophilia but didn't realize it was just men and boys. Is it an American organization or is it worldwide? I think it's pretty sick too. How do they get away with it?
Linda, I'll go look it up, but I thought those numbers were falling for gay men with AIDS.
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Linda_K
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posted on March 19, 2004 02:25:29 PM new
KD - Might not be a bad idea, because last I'd read the rates were once again increasing. [don't know when that was though]
But we were talking about 'previously' gay men. And many gay 'contacts' leads to more of a chance of contacting the virus. They don't have a reputation for being monogamous.
Just as those who have sex with intervenous drug users have a higher chance of getting aids than do those of either sex who don't use the drugs.
Re-elect President Bush!!
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stopwhining
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posted on March 19, 2004 02:25:41 PM new
not just past gay behavior,there is also the possibility of current and future gay behavior??
i doubt if any hardcore gay or semi hardcore would give up their preference.
but then to be fair-heterosexual partner could have a history of frequenting prostitues and that could spell STD.
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