posted on December 17, 2004 02:11:59 PM new
Everything we go through in our lives helps to mold us into the people we are.
With that in mind....
If I did not marry my gay ex-husband, I would not have the children I have. Since I love them more than life itself...I guess I wouldn't change that.
However, husband #2 is a different story. I really can't put a positive spin on that. I definitely would not have put my children through his abuse, had I known.
posted on December 17, 2004 02:55:15 PM new
Classic...I will try and explain it to you....
Twig was married to a man, had some children and then found out the man she was married to was gay and divorced him....
She loves her kids, if it was not for her former husband, she would not have the kids she loves.
Absolute faith has been shown, consistently, to breed intolerance. And intolerance, history teaches us, again and again, begets violence.
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posted on December 17, 2004 04:36:15 PM newwell then I assume hes bisexual,not just gay- is that correct?
Lots of gay men try to deny their homosexuality by getting married and having children, or they find out later in life that they're attracted to other men. Did you think someone who is gay is somehow physically incapable of intercourse with the opposite sex, or are you just really stuck on labeling people??
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posted on December 17, 2004 05:19:24 PM new
I believe he WAS gay, then fell in love with me (I'm wonderful...lol) so he turned straight, then he was bi, now he's TOTALLY gay. (And has been for at least 15 years, more or less.)
posted on December 17, 2004 07:30:25 PM newwell then I assume hes bisexual,not just gay- is that correct?
Bisexual - That is just a term "straight" men use to deny their homosexuality until they come out of the closet.
Absolute faith has been shown, consistently, to breed intolerance. And intolerance, history teaches us, again and again, begets violence.
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posted on December 17, 2004 07:56:46 PM new
"Did you think someone who is gay is somehow physically incapable of intercourse with the opposite sex, or are you just really stuck on labeling people??"
and, may I ask WHAT label was I putting on him? I was asking a question
posted on December 17, 2004 10:09:57 PM newand, may I ask WHAT label was I putting on him? I was asking a question
Your posts make it pretty clear that you don't think a homosexual man is capable of fathering children. You assume he was bisexual, not just gay. That's the label I'm talking about.
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posted on December 18, 2004 05:36:57 AM new
I'd take what my mother told me more seriously. That's the first thing I'd do. The second is that I wouldn't have decided to "take a year off" from school. Big mistake. It's now been almost 30 years. Oh, let's not forget this: I would have chosen my boyfriends more carefully. I had a habit (still to this day) of attracting down on their luck bad boys. My Reiki master says my Crown Chakra shines like a beacon in the night and I believe it.
Cheryl
"Success in almost any field depends more on energy and drive than it does on intelligence. This explains why we have so many stupid leaders."
-Sloan Wilson
posted on December 18, 2004 07:11:02 AM new
"Your posts make it pretty clear that you don't think a homosexual man is capable of fathering children. You assume he was bisexual, not just gay. That's the label I'm talking about. "
Well of course I dont think a homosexual man is capable of fathering children-unless you know something I dont.If he can father children then he must be having sex with a woman also,which would make him bisexual.So Im not sure where the label comes in.
posted on December 18, 2004 08:48:16 AM new
Classic: Well of course I don't think a homosexual man is capable of fathering children-unless you know something I don't.If he can father children then he must be having sex with a woman also,which would make him bisexual.So I'm not sure where the label comes in.
Now I know you are a complete idiot. You do not need have intercourse in order to produce kids. All it takes is for a gay man to be a sperm donor. The sperm can be artificially inseminated into a woman. That sperm donor is the "father" of the child. The woman who produced the egg is the mother of the child. Therefore a gay man can father a child without having intercourse with a woman. Just like a lesbian couple can produce a child without having sex with a man.
Some people will never have any common sense. Where have you been the past 30 years? I guess you like living with your head in the sand about medical procedures.
Absolute faith has been shown, consistently, to breed intolerance. And intolerance, history teaches us, again and again, begets violence.
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posted on December 18, 2004 03:03:42 PM new
Dad-yes I know all about those proceedures-I was specfically talking about twigs husband.She had already answered the question that he was bisexual.
posted on December 18, 2004 04:52:51 PM new
Maybe I wasn't clear enough. There can be a big difference between a person's sexual preference and their sexual behavior. Lots of homosexual men hide their preference, get married, father children, and pretend to be straight for years. They may, in fact, never act on their homosexual preferences during their married lives. This doesn't change the fact that they are gay. It also doesn't necessarily make them bisexual either. Bisexuality is indicative of sexual attraction to both sexes.
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